Mad o!

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How easy it is for people to forget I have a life. How convinient!

Some days I shrug it off; it doesn't really matter. Other days I ponder on it all day. Its astounding, and funny and exasperating at the same time.

You, you are the wife and mom. You definitely want to be seen as such, only, you handpick the responsibility that you are saddled with, even when it's clearly yours. Mad o!
You could care less about the cooking, but you feel sidelined when another serves. Double mad o!
You go out at will, with little or no regard for the one who takes over after you've left. I'm the one who has to plan ahead and ask permission to go out cos of the (your) kids. Now, that's mad o pro!

You, you drop your kids without any heads up... 5-6 weeks straight, I'm supposed to look after 5 children.
It's the no notice for me, and the assumption that I've got nothing to do. Ma what? Maaaad o!

Who does the dishes when everyone leaves the plates and leaves in the morning?
Who picks up after everyone, both the kids and adults?
Who does the cooking with not so much as a 'thank you'
Who is expected to fuel the gen, clean the house, mind the kid, run the errands, wash the clothes and many more....

What a super woman I have become!
Cos, mad o! 

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